Tuesday, April 26, 2005

forgive and move on......

Thanks to all of the blog fam for the great advice. I really needed the kind comments.
A while back I realized and posted abput my need to forgive my husband for the things he did. I know that I can not move on and be happy until I do that. I realize that i'm still hurt and the pain will not allow me to move foward. If I begin to forgive him, I will begin to be on the road toward my own happiness...Am I right?

I'm going to work on it.....One day at a time................................


Blogger Margaret said...

One day at at time is ALL anyone can ask. Baby steps...baby steps...

7:13 AM  
Blogger YouToldHarpoTaBeatMe said...

Forgive him, Girl. I'll bet SOME of my tax refund (hehehe) that once you do, you'll have more blessing to 'count', that is....if you don't get 'overwhelmed' with them. :o)

Call on Him, 'cuz you KNOW forgiveness isn't something we can do in our OWN strength without fouling it up.

8:21 AM  
Blogger Nikki said...

I was master of holding grudges, so I understood where you were coming from. It used to be, if you wronged me, I'd never forget it nor would I allow you to forget it. But there comes a time when you just have to forgive, let go and let God.

9:07 AM  
Blogger Dee said...

Margaret: I need to work on my baby steps...I want "giant" steps...i'mma work on that gurl!

Tikki:I luv your sense of humor...girly I can't imagine having so many blessings that i'm overwhelmed...LOL

Nikki:I will try to let go and especially let GOD! I think I will put that expression on my mirror. Sometimes I have lil expressions I tape on the mirrors....affirmations really help!!!!!

10:07 AM  
Blogger princessdominique said...

Dee the first step is realizing that you are angry at him and need to forgive him and you've done that. Hang in there.

11:04 AM  
Blogger E to the dwige said...

I'm cosigning with everyone. One day at a time. Sometimes we can't dwell on how other folks are doing.

4:43 PM  
Blogger Rhonda said...

Girl forgive him - dont let him have that hold on you. When the day comes and you let go you will be so happy and wonder what took so long - I want to celebrate with you when the day arrives!

Good Luck, I am sure you can do it.

6:32 PM  
Blogger SMW said...


I feel you on your last post.

But the thing that amazed me was the fact that your ex actually said something NICE to you. He recognized your importance and your strength.

I NEVER, EVER get anything but criticism from my ex.

So I see your struggle is not really with him(right now) it is with yourself. You still feel as though he did you wrong when (and I'm learning this too) he did you a favor by leaving.

You don't believe it? Me neither, at first. But now I'm a believer. One day we'll both have powerful testimonies to tell.

Testimonies with extremely happy endings.

I promise baby!

8:59 PM  
Blogger Diva said...

You shall be free indeed not when your days are without a care and when your nights are without a want and a grief, but rather when these things surround and girdle your life and YET YOU RISE ABOVE THEM naked and unbound. I read this in Kahlil Gibran's "The Prophet" and felt compelled to share it with you sweetie. {{kisses}}

9:27 PM  
Blogger G. Cornelius Harris said...

Thats all you can do...I'll keep you posted

10:02 PM  
Blogger Jazz said...


10:31 PM  
Blogger Dayrell said...

I missed commenting on your last post Dee...but I'm glad you made a new discovery for the better. That's what life is all about...learning how to overcome. I'm proud of you girl. And will also keep you in my prayers. :)

2:50 AM  

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