Wednesday, July 20, 2005



He sent me a text 1st asking me to meet him at a club. I text him back saying naaww. I was already in bed (it was 10 already past my bedtime). We text back and forth then I went to sleep! I am a very light sleeper so when the phone vibrated at 11:oo I just ignored it.......then it rang at midnite...Iwas too tired and groggy to answer....then there was a text......I will have to R.E.A.D. his ass today!!!!

When did it become cool to call people after hours? I know I may be a lil old school but you are not supposed to call after 10 am I right? Unless it's your man or a booty call right?

Am I just old school?

I can not wait to tell him today!!!! If he doesn't come correct....I will tell him to lose my number!!!

Happy Wednesday y'all


Blogger Nikki said...

Midnight calls usually equal booty calls. Unless he's your man or a family member in danger, any call after midnight shouldn't be answered in my book.

12:43 PM  
Blogger Dee said...

I didn't answer....I just can't belive he would do that shit!!!
He just called but we are not allowed to use our cell phones in the clinic....

12:47 PM  
Blogger courtneyelizabeth said...

agree with Nikki......send that ish to

1:30 PM  
Blogger Nia said...

Yes, you're old school but aint nothing wrong with it. Those were definitely botty call hours. It shows a lack of respect, especially if he knows your sleeping schedule. (Perhaps he didn't know you were sleep though...perhaps.)

2:09 PM  
Blogger Cutie Cola said...

Hey........I agree 110%! I hate when ppl are so inconsiderate and feel they can call your house any hour of the night. I am a strict believer in the 10pm cut-off rule myself so you did the right thing by not picking up.

btw......thanks so much for stopping by my dear! it's so good to hear from someone in the profession. I hear that cali pays nurses very well. However, at the risk of sounding corny, I'm really doing it mainly because I love to help ppl and I absolutely LOVE science!

2:41 PM  
Anonymous Juanita said...

I have stuck to the no calls after 10 pm rule, even though I am now an adult. My parents never let me make or take calls after ten on any night because it is just plain rude. I have friends who call me after ten and I always have to remind them that I don't take calls on any line after ten. If it is a crisis I will take it, but aside from children falling ill, I screen all my calls. Check this guy and let him know that it isn't okay to call after ten just because it is bad manners. Happy Wednesday!

3:08 PM  
Blogger Lambchop said...

I'm with you. Past 10pm = booty call, or stalker.

Mr. Jackass Circus Midget used to call at 11pm, 12am, 1am, 3am...

Guys these days dont seem to have any tact. It's not cool to wake a woman up when she's sleeping...especially on a work day!!!



5:29 PM  
Blogger button_nose said...

You tell him gurl...the nerve of these men calling when they fell like. If you guys had an understanding then fine, but since it seems like you don't then let him have it!!

6:11 PM  
Blogger Kayla said...

Girl,hell yeah! No calls after 10. Now, if you tell me to call you, I will. I don't get calls after 10,unless it's on the weekends. I'll make exceptions then, because I don't have to work. Other than that though, it's been an unspoken knowledge not to call me late at night. I haven't had to tell anyone that. However, I had to put somebody in check for showing up at my crib, WITHOUT calling AND it was AFTER MIDNIGHT!! You know I had to R.E.A.D. him!

6:21 PM  
Blogger Butter Pecan said...

I feel the same way, don't call me after 10 unless its an emergency or I'm expecting you to call me. After 10 its booty call time. You need to set his ass straight on that shit.

6:36 PM  
Blogger Organized Noise said...

First of all LOL at the fact that you were "gracing him with your presence". Anyway, old school is in. I have the same type of rules about calling me. I don't like it when people call the house after 10pm or the cell phone after 11pm. I used to say that if you called me after 11pm someone better be dead, in jail or in the hospital, but then I thought about it. You're still gonna be dead in the morning, I wouldn't be able to bail you out in until the morning, and visiting hours don't start until 11am at most hospitals. So the rule has been modified. If you call me that late 1. You're calling me to let me know that you got home ok or 2. It's a booty call. Then again, just to avoid all that, I just cut my phone off when I go to bed.

6:48 PM  
Blogger Margaret said...

If he is brave enough to try it again, answer the phone with this line borrowed from the movie 'Big Momma's House':


8:36 PM  
Blogger Msnhim said...

Its good to know Im not alone in the 10pm cut off rule. I was beginning to think that I was the only one that knew about that rule.

Booty Call for sure!!!!

7:06 AM  
Blogger muffin said...

no you are not old school. i don't even call anyone after 10 at the very latest! i definitely don't receive calls after midnight either unless it's an emergency! no emergency? you get VOICEMAIL! i'm tryin to sleep!!!

7:14 AM  
Blogger said...

you have to tell him the rules. After 10pm that is a booty call. unless you are unemployed...

8:30 AM  
Blogger sonyared said...

Nah...that would piss me of 100%. That is a big turn off for me...even when my own man does it..LOL

10:16 AM  
Blogger Zantiferous3 said...

ROFLMAO!!! DAMN ya'll are some MEAN asses up in here!! LOL I stay up verrrrry late... so I don't mind if someone calls me after 10:00... but after 11:00? We're definitely in booty-call territory. LOL Damn. 10? LOL Ya'll are hard on a brutha.

2:17 PM  

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