Wednesday, September 21, 2005

sometimes you need a male point of view.........

Big shot out to "organized noise" for his advice on THE LIAR!!!!!

I have thought about his comment for a few days and he makes soooo much sense!!!!

Thanks though to my 'blog gurls" for their advice also. It sorta makes you feel a lil better when y'all threaten to help me "whoop" on him and tell me what an ass hole he is etc...etc....

I was at a "stand- still" so to speak. Not moving foward. I guess still hurting. Now that I bumped into him and got his fucked up wannabe apology, I realize.....i'm OVER HIM!!!!!

TIME TO MOVE ON..........................

THANKS TO ALL OF YOU FOR THE GREAT ADVICE!!!!!

20 Comments:

Blogger Schatzi said...

I went back and read the comment.. And I agree! You need to find whatever it takes to help the hurt! (looks like you just did!) You are so strong and there is better for you out there!!!

10:46 AM  
Blogger Nia said...

I had to go back and read his comment. I must say it was on point, he is very right and I'm glad you agree.

11:06 AM  
Blogger princessdominique said...

I didn't follow the story from the beginning but I'm glad you're over him Missy.

11:32 AM  
Blogger E to the dwige said...

I too went back and read his comment and must say he's making a lot of sense. It's actually helping me think of my own situation with a liar and as I wait for some sort of explanation I need to ask myself WHY. Why should I trust anything he says.

11:32 AM  
Blogger Msnhim said...

Glad you've moved on. Keep you head up!!!!!!!!!

trust me "your" man is out there.

12:12 PM  
Blogger Echo said...

Sorry Dee, I'm new and I had to do a little catching up, and I'M IN!!!! damn it!!! Wanna run a drive by on his ass?

No sorry isn't enough, and I don't know what would be enough, short of him feeling the same pain you felt. Which I am sure he must have if you were his for 2 years.

Tell me something? Did you at least agree with him and Say "Yeah you are sorry, and one day your wife will find out" Please say you did!

I hate cheaters, now that is something that will make me cuss.

BTW--Love the blog, I am going to add you to my daily reads. Thanks for finding me, so I could find you!

12:51 PM  
Blogger Dee said...

at echo: I know karma is a bitch!!!! He did me wrong...I was really good 2 his ass!!!!! Oh yeah you are here in san diego....dam the drive by is tempting...............LOL

12:55 PM  
Blogger Kayla said...

Just reading this, girl. Don't even waist another breath on his a@@. You're too much for him, and better off not even thinking about him. It's good you're over him, and I'm glad you agreed with Organized..

8:31 PM  
Blogger Organized Noise said...

@ dee . . . no problem. My bill is in the mail ;-P . Seriously though, my advice is nothing without your belief in it. Without you I am just a man with an opinion and we all know that opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. With you, I could be the next Dr. Phil.

@ everyone else . . . I can be reached by e-mail, by phone or just post your problems on your blog and make sure I check you out. I'm here for you. Until next time, I'm Organized Noise reminding you that "there is no "trying", just "doing" or "not doing".

(cue cheesey tv theme music)

10:08 PM  
Blogger The Foxybrown Show said...

One Chapter ends and another begins. Just think you will be able to look back and laugh at this and more importantly learn from this....Keep me posted on the new chapter and remember "The Best is yet to Come"!

6:38 AM  
Blogger Nikki said...

Whew, glad you're moving forward. That dude wasn't worth it.

6:59 AM  
Blogger sonyared said...

Girl just keep on truckin' someone is out there (lawd! for all of us, who have the pleaseure of dealin' with these "MEN").U can add me to the whoop ass list too...LOL

8:52 AM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

everything happens for a reason.
tj

10:01 AM  
Blogger courtneyelizabeth said...

CHEERS TO MOVIN ON!....and UP!

10:49 AM  
Blogger defiant goddess said...

You're right. That was great advice!

6:03 PM  
Blogger Rhonda said...

This just goes to show you have damn strong you are! YOU GO GIRL!!

5:12 AM  
Anonymous Reddy said...

It sounds like you're letting the "bags" go my sista.. You can leave pain, hurt, rejection, betrayal and the rest of that nasty luggage set at the door.

The Lord can't carry your burdens and heal that pain, if you're still holding onto it.

Peace and blessings gyrl.

7:23 PM  
Blogger brooklyn babe said...

"Sometimes you gotta hurt something, to help something...' you can never really know the depth of that, until some bull comes along and hurts ya....
So I trust that you are in much better place today, then you were before babes, and I'm sure discovering the truth in some weird (hurtin) way "helped".


And I'm still down to Thelma-n-Louise his ass anyday...lol

9:52 AM  
Blogger Lambchop said...

I had to go back and view the comment too. He's completely on point.

Dee you are too wonderful! you deserve (and will attain) the type of man worthy of your precious attention!

Blessing!
Chops~

2:18 PM  
Anonymous Xquizzyt1 said...

This is so true. I read this before, and swore I commented... and actually I did. But Blogger's comment section was down that day... so I didn't get a chance to post it.

Tell me that's not the most wondiferous feeling!!! When you are REALLY over him. It's so fabulous. It's almost like you want to see him JUST so he can know how over him you are. LOL

2:38 PM  

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