Tuesday, November 01, 2005

I chickened out.......

I did not go over to my friends mom's house. I will attend the funeral tomorrow. I'm really sad. I wanted to go over and give her mom a hug and let her know how sorry I am for her loss. You see the thing that gets me all choked up is I don't want to see her children's faces.......I know that seeing them will definetly break me down!!!!!!!

I know that when I look into their faces.....I will cry my eyes out cause I will see my own kids in them........I can't imagine growing up without my mom!!!! She was the only girl with two brothers.........I can't imagine life with out my only sibling.........

Well I better get to work!!!! Y'all have a good day!!!!!


Blogger African girl, American world said...

You know what you can handle. Give yourself time and when you are ready, go and see them. Happy Tuesday.

8:30 AM  
Blogger Closet Owner said...

Stay strong.

We witcha!

oh and get well soon from your Friday cold!

8:42 AM  
Blogger Slim said...

I agree with hapee2bnapee, you are going to have to give yourself time until you can handle going to go see them. BIG HUG. Be Blessed.

10:02 AM  
Blogger Aziza said...

It was okay for you to decide to not drop by your friend's mom's house yet based on your feelings. Perhaps, you may feel comfortable dropping by there a little later.

A few years ago, I couldn't get in contact with a friend of mine. I thought that she was away on business or on a vacation with her son. I rationalized every possible reason. But after calling and leaving messages for two weeks, I knew that her terminal condition had possibly worsened. So, I got up my nerve and called her family. Her sister told me that she had passed away. And although the sadness came all at once, I tried to make sure that I told her sister how great a person she was, and how she spoke of God and Jesus, and how much she loved her young son. An some kind of way, that seem to provide comfort to her sister. I miss my phonecalls with my friend talking about our boyfriends, work, and friends, but I'm really glad that we were friends.

10:13 AM  
Blogger Msnhim said...

Funerals are hard. i only go if I really have to. Good luck.

1:53 PM  
Blogger ProfessorGQ said...

Be strong, sista...I was talking about how people handle deaths and funerals yeasterday with some friends...you are not alone in the way you felt...pray if you believe in it.

1:55 PM  
Blogger Butter Pecan said...

Your a very strong woman, you know how to handle the situation when the time comes

2:06 PM  
Blogger Groove said...

It is really hard, I lost my best friend 2 years ago, she left behind 3 kids and to this day it is still hard to see them.

You have to go at your own pace, they know you...and realize that it's your loss too.

I will keep you in my prayers.

2:54 PM  
Blogger BajanQueen said...

Funerals are hard, you never know what to say.....and sorry just never seems to be enough.

I understand your hesitation over seeing her boys...that is a tough one.

You are a strong woman...when you're ready go and offer your condolences.


7:00 PM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

You will do what you have to do, when you are ready to do it. I will pray for you all.

12:33 PM  
Blogger The Foxybrown Show said...

Where oh Where have you been?

Ok it's Thursday but I want to know WHY have I not seen you on the show??

4:45 AM  
Blogger Nia said...

Sorry for your loss...

9:03 AM  

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