Wednesday, January 25, 2006

DUDE YOU HAVE A FUCKING PROBLEM!!!!

This DUMBASS called me 123,234,999 times yesterday!!!! I answered once at 6 a.m and said this " I don't feel well. I'm going to work because I have to. When I get off i'm going home and go to bed!!!"

Dude called me a gazillion fucking times!!!! I din't answer!!! I keep my phone OFF at work and check a couple of times a day to see if anyone has called!!!! I saw he had called and didn't call him back.......WHY????? Because I didn't feel like it!!!!!!

I left work about 3:30 went home and cooked a really quick dinner, got in my p.j's and got in bed by 5 with my dinner, some o.j and my cold.medicine.to.knock.my.ass.out. At 5:30 My son comes in the room "dude is here" Stop playing son..........."no mom he's at the door!!!! My son goes back out to the living room and he comes back and stands in my doorway.............i'm laying in bed with my cherry nightgown on looking up at him like he HAS.LOST.HIS.FUCKING.MIND!!!!

ME: WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM??????

IDIOT: I was concerned...I knew you were sick and I hadn't talked to you today.you were not answering my calls............

ME: I fucking talked to you at 6 a.m.

IDIOT: I was worried you had went to the hospital or something.

ME: ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS?????MOTHERFUCKKA I WORK IN A CLINIC WITH 20 DOCTORS!!!! WHAT IN THE FUCK WERE YOU GONNA DO FOR ME?????? WHY IN THE HELL WOULD I CALL YOU?????? I AM A FUCKING NURSE!!!!!!

IDIOT: I WAS CONCERNED...........

ME: BULLSHIT..........YOU WERE BEING A FUCKING STALKER!!!!!! DON'T EVER,EVER,EVER, COME TO MY HOUSE WITHOUT CALLING ME!!!!!

IDIOT: You didn't answer your phone though.........

ME: that's because I didn't want to talk to your ass!!!! did you ever think about that!!!!! I DON'T FEEL GOOD!!!!! I DON'T WANT TO TALK!!!!!

LOOK AT ME AND LISTEN REALLY GOOD!!!!!! GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY HOUSE AND DON'T CALL ME AGAIN!!!! YOU ARE OUTTA LINE!!!!! WAY OUTTA LINE!!!! YOU HAVE NO RESPECT FOR MY SPACE AND I DON'T APPRECIATE IT!!!!!!

Do you know this CRAZY motha fucka said "I can see you are mean when you are sick"

DUDE WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM??????


36 Comments:

Blogger Shai said...

I am with the person on your last thread check him out.

Dee, I gotta share my story. I met a guy on my way to work. He was acting all stranger on the phone. Asking me to meet him at a park if I don't feel comfortable with him coming over, since my car was down.

Anyway, after 2 conversations, he says he is not a phone person and likes to speak face to face. I am like OK, however, I said I like taking time to know each other on the phone. He said he understood.

Then later in the same conversation said he could not take it and tried to talk me into meeting him. I was so adamant he got mad. I said you know what I see we don't have alot in common or on the same page. Let's just end this and not talk again. He got pissed and loud. I calmly said it would be a waste of time.

To make a long story shorter, I looked him up on our state prisoner offender website. I did not expect to find him when I did, I thought maybe selling drugs or something.

I scrolled down and it said: AGRRAVATED STALKING. I about fell out my chair at work. Thank God he never called back or knew where I lived.

9:19 AM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

okay! This mess is reading like a comedy. But lets take a deep breath. You was really feeling dude. You was liking him for a reason. What was those reasons? I know it just wasn't cuz he could cook. Just playing the devils advocate since I have been telling you to do a background check on him from the start...maybe you are mean when you are sick. Normally people would love for someone to call on them and care about their well being.
I just want to make sure you are sure. Lord knows you was claiming dude was Mr Right! HA! I tell ya them down south dudes are staight CRAZY! HA!
HOLLA at ya girl FOR REAL!

9:33 AM  
Blogger chele said...

The beginning of relationships are always fun and exciting and I understand why at first you were all ga-ga.

However, when I don't feel like being bothered I DON'T FEEL LIKE BEING BOTHERED! It is not rocket science. You have been very clear with dude and he should respect your space.

I know some people (women) will say that he was just being concerned and you should be grateful ... forget that ... he should respect the fact that you wanted to go home and go to bed because you were sick. I know I don't want someone all up underneath me when I'm under the weather. Did he at least bring some chicken soup?

9:46 AM  
Blogger Hali said...

Wow! What happened? He was way out of line with the pop-up. I'm sure he was concerned, but again you two are only friends. He should have just left a vm message saying that he was checking on you and was concerned and left it at that. Your reaction was probably being pissed mixed with a little of the sickness with it. I agree w/ Mrs.TJ. You've liked this guy for a reason. Men just don't understand that they can push a woman away real quick not giving the appropriate space. Hopefully you two will get pass this, if that is what you want.

9:56 AM  
Blogger Lāā said...

Wow, couldn't he understand that you didn't want to talk. And 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning is just plain disrespectful! You may have liked him in the beginning when he was cool, but obviously the REAL him is coming out now.

Hope you feel better.

10:06 AM  
Blogger Dee said...

YEAH HE WAS CONCERNED.THAT'S WHY HIS ASS CAME EMPTY HANDED!!!!!

No cold medicine, no fucking Kleenex, no cough drops, no tea not shit!!!!! yeah you were concerned that maybe sombody else was with me!!!!!

Yeah I was feeling him in the begining but when red flags come up..I HAVE.2.PAY.ATTENTION!!!!

1st red flag: getting mad cause I introduced him as my FRIEND!!! That's what he was!!!!!

2nd red flag: calling 123,456,999,345 times daily and the 3:38 a.m. call was the nail in the coffin!!!

3rd red flag: talking about you miss me!!!!! WHO.FUCKING SAYS THAT???

4th flag: showing up at my house!!!!

10:16 AM  
Blogger Msnhim said...

I told you!!!! They always show their CRAZY.... you did the right thing. Now just cool down before you speak to him againg lees you say something you'll later regret,

10:17 AM  
Blogger Aziza said...

Lawd have mercy. I'm almost speechless. Dee, things started out so beautifully with him, but all I can say now is be careful.

11:33 AM  
Blogger SmartBlkWoman said...

Ok is this man whipped or is he whipped?

Men are always trying to runnin up behind you when you ain't trying to run up behind them.

Dude sounds a little crazy. I'm with the other posters maybe a little distance is in order?

12:29 PM  
Anonymous Nikki said...

Keep his name, number and address ready for the authorities. Homeboy was too calm while you were going off on him. That usually means he'll snap later.

12:40 PM  
Blogger TTD said...

im sorry things didn't work out b/c i know you were liking dude.. but better you found out that he was crazy early on than later.. im sure you're going to miss his cooking though.. but f*ck it! you can cook for yourself! if he calls again, continue to ignore the calls, but make sure when you feel better call him back & let him know that "No you're not mean b/c you're sick, you don't like dealing w/ the stalker type, and that you'd appreciate it if he moved on"

12:45 PM  
Blogger Brandi said...

HOLY SHIT! We gots another stalker ladies :(

12:58 PM  
Blogger BajanQueen said...

LMAO....

What do you do to these men gurl!?!?!?

Oh my I am sooooo sorry to hear he is now in the "stalker and crazy" category...

After reading all of this shit I forgot to tell you I hope you feel better!!

Don't let this upset you too much, take care of yourself gurl.

~Smooches~

1:40 PM  
Blogger TheOneandOnlyInsanely said...

DEE- GO FAR FAR FAR AWAY FAST!!!!

1:44 PM  
Blogger TheOneandOnlyInsanely said...

OMG @ SHAI, I need to invest some money and get the background check access.

1:45 PM  
Blogger Butter Pecan said...

Yes indeed, I think ya got yourself a stalker. Get rid of his ass Quick!!!!!!!!!

2:02 PM  
Blogger Lisa said...

Oh wow! Sometimes men just don't get it1 LOL

2:49 PM  
Blogger ProfessorGQ said...

I got a stalker like that...all the way in Africa.

2:57 PM  
Blogger SMW said...

~shakes head~

3:21 PM  
Blogger African girl, American world said...

Dee - I'm sad. I hate when people say 'I told you so'.....all I wanna say feel better and be careful. I'm positive he hasn't got the message so he'll be calling. Damn! Damn! Damn!

3:21 PM  
Blogger That Girl Tam said...

LMAFAO!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA! Damn gurl...you sure know how to pick'em. HAHAHAHAHAHA! Hmm..you live in SD, right? This nigga's name ain't Marcus Banks is it? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH (dang did I just put someone on BLAST?) HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA

I'll have to tell you about that story some time...but not on my blog...Mack is still very sensitive about that one! HAHAHAHA!

Feel better mama...

3:50 PM  
Anonymous Shai said...

InsanelySane, girl the check I did was FREE. Alot of states have free offender searches. Go to your state's corrections website and see.

7:13 PM  
Blogger Melinda said...

I am all for a man worring about me when i am sick...HOWEVER you wernt having a damn heart attack or something life threatning. He is scarry and seems like he would be the controlling type like call every minute when you are out. Had a stalker..Didn't like it not so cute or romantic! This one might be better left alone!

7:29 PM  
Blogger Accomplice said...

Yeah, sounds like you are in stalker city. it may be good to tell your son not to answer the door when he comes by.

8:31 PM  
Blogger Jaimie said...

Get some Mace. They have a combo kit with Mace, tear gas, and dye. I have it myself. ;)

8:41 PM  
Blogger POPS said...

another devil's advocate. you said no more naked fun, but you did say you want to be friends. but it don't sound like son is getting a fair shake. going good times and naked fun to just be friends and no phone calls...hell...he may his own blog somewhere wondering about what the hell is going on. just a thought. but still...do you. be happy.

9:59 PM  
Blogger Rose said...

Dee you are so funny even if that is not your intention. You may that very clear, don't know why he didn't get it.

7:45 AM  
Blogger BossMack said...

Why are you Fucking with a Winnie Dude? Dee, what tha fuck is you tripping on? You had to had seen the signs of this pending type of behavior.

11:05 AM  
Blogger Honey-Libra said...

LMAO....WOW does he not get it. He seems like one of those I don't get it men. You tell them over and over not to call and then they say oh you must be on your cycle...nah boo just leave me the hell alone LOL...dang girl I would have just hurled on him..see what he did then

12:59 PM  
Blogger princessdominique said...

Dee! You have GOT to be kidding?!?! He came to your house? I mean, he needs a clue. He is way beyond stalker and it reeks of RESTRAINING ORDER!

6:11 PM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

you know I'm checking for an update! You know we luv ya and worry! CHECK IN SOON!
holla!

10:56 AM  
Blogger Nia said...

LMAO....wait...I haven't visited in perhaps a week and read all the posts up to this one...and damn how things have turend around. I'm not laughing at you I promise...I'm laughing with you because it sounds so much like me that its ridiculous. I say this much for my short and quick romantic encounters...at least I don't end up with crazy ass folks for long.

11:06 AM  
Blogger Kayla said...

Damn, Dee! You went mid eveil on his ass! LOL Sorry to hear things aren't working out, girl. Don't worry about it too much. He WAS out of line showing up at your house. If he was concerned, he would have left voice messages for the 56,454,827 calls he made to you. That's what I would have done. Then I would have cussed your ass out for not returning my calls. hehe LAMO

11:58 AM  
Blogger Closet Owner said...

Get a pistol...for real...

Brothers slippin hard.

12:59 PM  
Blogger Miss Ahmad said...

This is just further proof that a man who loves a woman he will go to end to have her.

I mean no one wants to be a victim of stalkerism, however I think it's worth noting that a when a man is really feeling you, he makes it perfectly clear.

You didn't have to spend one minute wondering if he liked you, or if he was thinking about you and that's worth noting!

1:04 PM  
Blogger The Princess Herself said...

Dee--I'm not sure about ol'boy...maybe he was being concerned, and maybe he's just psycho.

I know it had to piss you off when he said you are mean when you are sick..but I had to laugh at that.

Props to him for remaining calm while getting cussed the eff out!

I dunno, sweetie. Go with your instincts. They speak to you for a reason!

4:53 PM  

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