Tuesday, January 03, 2006



I had a great new years eve. My lil brother,his gurl visiting from Hawaii, my nephew, my son(the oldest had other plans....dam 17 year olds!!!!!) My gurl Jaime, her daughter, and my new friend and his 2 kids.....we had a great time eating and playing games..........very nice time had by all!!!!

New years day, my new friend cooked for me again..........yeah!!!! Twice already........he went to the store and came back with a pork roast, black-eyed-peas, cornbread, cabbage and fried some chicken!!!!! I layed on the couch me and my gurl drinking bloody mary's while he cooked one helluva dinner......I think he's a keeper!!!!!!

Let's talk just a little about H.I.M. He's a few years older than me.........40 and a REAL gentleman!!!! He just makes me smile!!!!!!! I'm scared cause it happened so fast and feels ummm sooooo right!!!!!! He kept calling my brother brother-in-law on Saturday nite!!!! Me and my brother got a good laugh about it last nite!!!!! Yesterday bestfriend came over to meet said dude that is taking up ALL.MY.TIME. LOL she brought 2 of our other friends along cause my friends are just nosey like that!!!! All three of them said he was hella cool but best friend called when she left and said "Dee he held your hand most of the time we were there....that's really sweet" AAAAAWWWWW!!!!!

Anyways.....I will take it slow o.k ms. NIKKI......for now I will just enjoy and hope it stays just like this.....the compliments, the phone calls, the good feelings I could REALLY GET USE TO THIS!!!! He said "i've been looking for someone like you my whole life"!!!!!! Dam no one has ever said that before.....shit even if it was/is a line, it sure as hell felt GOOD!!!!!

Back to the plantation today after 4 1/2 days off!!!!!

Hope you all have a great day!!!!!!!!


Blogger Nicky said...

Happy New Year ma. Happy to hear that all is going well with your new friend. LOL at the laying on the couch drinking bloody marys while he cooked. I love to lay around while my husband is cooking too that shit is the bomb. LOL

7:52 AM  
Anonymous O said...

I'm excited and it ain't even me! Glad you had a good NY. I know I'm a little biased, but, umm, "take it slow?" To that I say take it only as slow as you need to. You are the best judge of you, and know how well or not well you read others. I can see the smile on your face all the way from here (still outta town)--it makes me smile, too. Let's go for sushi next week at lunch so I can hear more.

8:26 AM  
Blogger Aziza said...

Happy New Year!!!...I'm not going to sit here and lie. This new development in your love life sounds exciting. Girllllll, I hope things work out.

8:55 AM  
Anonymous Just Will said...

I'm happy to hear that you were actually enjoying the weekend as much as I thought you were! Unfortunately, I'm still singing in the take it slow chorus, because those brother-in-law's were coming fast and furious...

9:46 AM  
Blogger Msnhim said...

Sounds like love is in the air. LOL

Good for you girl! Enjoy it cause I know you deserve it.

10:15 AM  
Blogger Dee said...

LMAO at my brother!!!!!

O we can go for sushi for sure!!! I can't get your blog from work!!!! It keeps saying site not avail. or some ish like that!!!! We can catch up when you get back!!!

aziza.....keep your fingers crossed!!

msn:I don't know about LOVE but it is NICE!!!

Nicky: you are still a show off!!!! POSTING PICS and ish like that!!!! yeah just wait til I learn how......LOL

10:45 AM  
Blogger Closet Owner said...

Okay...congrats on the man...

Nah...I am hating...who da hell dude is trying to put the old marriage game up first.

Okay...once again congrats on the new man.

10:49 AM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

Ummmm...We need to do a background check, credit check, and a vital records check. Have you asked him why he isn't with some one? If he is cool like that then what happened to the last chick.
I SWEAR after we get these few questions/issues out of the way. HE WILL BE COOL! HA!
We have to look out for ya ma!
OH! And how do the boys feel about him?

10:51 AM  
Blogger Dee said...

you guys are nutz!!!!!

Closet: you sound like my lil bro....he called my brother brother in law quite a few times!!! LOL

Mrs.t.j: you know you need jesus....you are so crazy!!!!

10:55 AM  
Blogger MsJayy said...

Good for you! LOL @ lounging on the couch with yo bloody marys. Work it girl!

12:37 PM  
Blogger BajanQueen said...

I am so happy for you...

Meeting someone new and having that new feeling is really good.

It makes you feel like you can concur the world.

I hope everything works out for the best for you ma, you deserve it gurl. *smile*

Damn that foods sound good though...~lol~


12:37 PM  
Blogger African girl, American world said...

Dee it sounds like he is a keeper. I'm happy for you.

Isn't it sad that these men have us so conditioned to except the tide to turn at any time?

Just enjoy yourself for now and we all know you gon check him if/when the tide shifts.

happy new year girl!

12:39 PM  
Blogger Nia said...

AWWW in deed. Happy Near year to you too. I'm glad you started it off on a very positive note.

1:41 PM  
Anonymous Nikki said...

Yes, please take it slow. Even a psycho mofo can act nice and caring in the beginning.

Just go at your own pace and don't let him force you to go at his. If he feels you're worth it, he will go at your pace.

1:41 PM  
Blogger DJ Diva said...

aww i'm thrilled for u!

I'm joining the chorus...slow...well u know the rest LOL

you need the background info...google him or something

2:02 PM  
Blogger P said...

Isn't the breath of a new relationship even if he is classified as a 'friend' so invigorating?

Enjoy the attention. I can hear the flush of fulfillment in your words.

Sounds like your new year is off to a spectacular start.

(Found you by six degrees of separation commenting on another blog)

Let's make it happen in the Oh-Six.

2:50 PM  
Blogger Schatzi said...

I'm happy for you! As long as you take it at the pace you want and he's cool with that.. Then go for it!

Happy New Year!

2:51 PM  
Blogger chele said...

Glad your New Year was so much fun. Enjoy your friend for as long as it lasts. Don't put any pressure on yourself -- just enjoy it.

3:08 PM  
Blogger E to the dwige said...

Happy New Year and glad you were able to take time off and relax!

3:31 PM  
Blogger That Girl Tam said...

Happy New Year mama...dang...so does this mean because I sat my ass at home with the kids and my husband was at work on NYE, the rest of my damn year I'mma be sittin at home? THAT'S WHACK!! HAHAHAHAHA!

3:32 PM  
Anonymous Reddy said...

Happy new yr gyrlie... sounds like the brutha is a keeper if he's throwing down in the kitchen like that.. damn he hooked up a feast.

7:22 PM  
Blogger Rhonda said...

HOLY SHIT! I had pork roast, black eyed pease and sourkraut and my drink was..............blood Marry. How freaking ironic is that?!?

Happy New Year Girly!!

4:40 AM  
Blogger Icey said...

Dang girl...what type of mojo you working with! lol

It is always nice to have someone around who appreciates you, however give it the 90 days test; most people show their truer selves after 90 days.

Good luck. I am excited for you

5:02 AM  
Blogger The Sarccastik Variable Why said...

plantation is right...good things are going good for you.....new year starts off good ....

6:18 AM  
Blogger Angie said...

I hope it does stay that way for you. He cooked for you, he might be a keeper!

6:24 AM  
Blogger Serial_Dater said...

Sounds like somebody got themselves a new man. ;o)

6:28 AM  
Blogger Kayla said...

Do the damn thing, Dee! Glad y'all enjoyed yourselves. Y'all sounded like my family and and I during Christmas. We had a ball playing games, eating, drinking, and what not. Enjoy your new man, Dee. Whether ohters believe you should slow it down a bit or not, you deserve to have someone treat you like that, so I say go for it. Do you.

7:03 AM  
Blogger MEP said...

Aww Dee, that's fantastic! Have fun and enjoy the ride. He sounds great!

7:35 AM  
Anonymous Southern Belle said...

Hi Dee -
I got at you, by way of slim, which is no longer bloggin at the moment. I jus want to say I enjoy your post. At anyrate I'm going to jump on the band waggon to say "take it slow and enjoy the ride".

Happy New Year! You are off to a great start.

10:12 AM  
Blogger glory said...

happy belated b-day, happy new year, and happy new H.I.M.

12:56 PM  
Blogger The Foxybrown Show said...

Happy New Year and I hope this year is even more Foxy than the last!

1:45 PM  

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