Thursday, February 23, 2006

I'm so sad!!!!

I got the letter in the mail today!!!!

I HAVE BEEN TERMINATED!!!!!

A letter y'all!!!! I'm soooo I dunno!!!! Mixed emotions right now!!!!

Thanks sooo much for the comments and prays especially!!!! You all are the best!!!!

I WILL TRY REALLY HARD TO STAY POSITIVE!!!!!! I WILL TRY AND REMEBER ALL MY BLESSINGS!!!! I HAVE TO BE STRONG FOR THE BOYS!!!!!

send positive vibes my way y'all cause I need them..............

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~THANKS~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

35 Comments:

Blogger African girl, American world said...

Hugs Dee - I don't have cingular but have all kinds of long distance so I can call you :)

e-mail me - nyakaira@aol.com

I swear if I lived closer, I'd be there in 2 seconds flat!!!

6:33 PM  
Anonymous Exhaustedspirit said...

Awwwww bigger and better things are coming! Just keep trusting in God. Sometimes we have to have our world shaken up to jar us to action!

6:47 PM  
Anonymous Singing said...

Girl I am praying for you. I can't even imagine.

God might be sending you a message. I firmly believe that God does things for a reason. Know that when one door closes another one is opening...and whatever it is will be better.

7:37 PM  
Blogger YouToldHarpoTaBeatMe said...

Something better is coming your way, Dee. *hugs*

Stay prayerful. You're in mine.

8:09 PM  
Blogger "N" Search of Ecstasy said...

I'm sending BIG HUGS and PRAYERS your way!

All man, I can't even believe they did that thru a damn letter. You are the second blogger that I've read about that happening to. Is that the new way to terminate someone?

Believe me, I have been going thru it to, but I'm trying very hard to stay positive to. It just seems like it is that time of the year. So many people are going thru turmoil right now.

I'm so sorry this had to happen to you, but remember that your blessing is on the way.

Keep the faith and don't give up!

8:24 PM  
Blogger Simply Joy said...

Reading what happened had me on the edge of my seat, and I've thought about everything you wrote, and feel my heart reaching out to you......... I've been reading you for a while, and my encouragement to you is this..
TODAY!!!!!!!! THIS DAY!!!!!!!!! IS THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!! Look up Dee, there's a window open, in a house that has a lot of new un opened doors... Doors that can be opened now, because yesterday door is closed. Your Key from GOD is the freedom to explore all that HE has in store for you......... YOUR JOY IS HERE GIRL!!! So try your tears.... God hasn't changed the direction of the wind, Dee all He did is change the sails........

Be Blessed!!!!!!!!
Simplyjoy

10:28 PM  
Blogger DJ Diva said...

You and the boys will be better than ok....Lay around for a week...get it out your system...then get back on the grind...I know He has something planned for you!

And you know I will be praying for yall...

11:25 PM  
Blogger Slim said...

Hugs

Just understand that there is a plan if your patient. He is able! He has something wonderful in store for you! New beginnings!
Your in my prayers!
Be Blessed

5:17 AM  
Blogger chele said...

Dee: You are still blessed. More than a conqueror! Don't let this speed bump stop your journey! We all love you and we know that you are going to get through this and come through it better than before. It may be difficult to comprehend right now but your blessing is just around the corner ...

5:37 AM  
Blogger defiant goddess said...

OMG! I am so sorry to hear that, hon. Let me know if there's anything I can do. You know I'm right here.

6:23 AM  
Blogger Lāā said...

Things will be better for you. When one door closes another better one opens. You will be fine.
*hugs*

6:25 AM  
Blogger Carmell said...

*hugs* sorry to hear than. you say you were there 7 years... well you kow what they say...7 years now its time to move on to something better.

6:56 AM  
Blogger Msnhim said...

Im so sorry your going through all this... stay positive and things will get better. Keep ya head up!

7:03 AM  
Blogger Melinda said...

I am sorry sweety! Maybe since yoiur a nurse and the Bmore area has soooo many jobs for nurses you were ment to move on down here like Baja!!??

Big hugs...I am sure that better job is out there waiting for ya!

7:12 AM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

Darn it!
Everything happens for a reason.
Maybe it is time for you to go to Medical school or something.
Change in Career...of course you know something bigger and better is on the way.
That's just the way GOD works.
I wish I was there, I would hug ya and we would get pissy drunk and full off hot wings.
We luv ya Ma!
E-mail me if you feel like talking.
Holla!

7:49 AM  
Blogger Miz JJ said...

I have been there girl. The fear, the uncertainty and the doubt, but you gotta remember that you're a strong black woman. Like my cousin always tells me...'we built the world'. You can handle this and will rise up to bigger and better things. HUGS!

8:11 AM  
Anonymous Nikki said...

Dee, I'm here for you girl. If you need something, let me know.

And don't look at this as a setback. View it as God having something better waiting in the wings for you.

8:38 AM  
Blogger Honest said...

Dee! I'm sorry to hear that. I KNOW things will work out and you'll be happier at your new place of employment.

9:37 AM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

I had to stop by and offer my support. (((((HUGS)))))) take it day by day..IT'll get GREATER, LATER. and Trust in teh LORD>...

9:42 AM  
Blogger Kari said...

Sorry you had that happen. Just remember when one door closes another one opens!
We are never dealt anything we canot handle. Remember that.

9:44 AM  
Blogger Slow Metamorphosis said...

I can't believe it!
Girl know that you are being prayed for and that all things will work out.

10:27 AM  
Blogger Rhonda said...

You have got the right idea. You are in my prayers and as you can clearly see your in so many others!!

10:35 AM  
Blogger courtneyelizabeth said...

a LETTER? IN the mail? smh....Im gonna pray for you. My best friend just got fired yesterdy. :(

11:04 AM  
Blogger Closet Owner said...

Stay up!...Damn baby girl...love flows to you from above and from this earthly realm.
I got it from a good source...you gone be allright!

11:58 AM  
Anonymous call2arms said...

Still praying for you. Fortunately you are a nurse and since we have a severe nursing shortage finding a new spot shouldn't be long.

But it is awful that attempting to help someone went so badly.

12:02 PM  
Blogger Margaret said...

A termination letter in the mail might just be the new black. My brother got terminated from his job a few days ago, and they told him that a letter was on its way...in the mail.

Let me know if you need anything.

1:16 PM  
Blogger Supa said...

Mwabi said you needed some love, so I hopped on over. So sorry sis. Sometimes life throws us those helluva sucker punches. I don't know your entire situation, but I will give u some positive thoughts and prayer and energy!!

(((BIG CYBER HUG))))

Cry when you have to, sis.

2:57 PM  
Blogger J. G. said...

Hey Dee-

I'm so sorry that you got a letter the nerves they could of at least called you. Well keep it together and you will get through this one, remember that something much better is on its way! Hugs....

4:24 PM  
Blogger taylor said...

Peace Sis,

This is my first time on your blog, and I don't mean to get all up on you but I was told that when we lose a job that it doesn't mean that we are jobless, it means we are ready for a new job. Often we'll find an even better one than the one we already had. We wouldn't even be looking for this better one unless God forced us out of our comfort zone. So take comfort in knowing that God never takes the best of the best away from us, but gives us the room for the best of the best to be introduced to us.

Stay in the Blessings

4:27 PM  
Blogger Lisa said...

Sorry to hear that! Don't worry - an even better job is out there waiting for you! :-)

6:44 PM  
Blogger Organized Noise said...

I'm sorry to hear about what happened. It is my hope that you take this negative and turn it into a positive. Now is your time.

7:14 PM  
Blogger Sharon said...

Dee, its my first time on your blog and I feel for your situation. I too am the single mother of a teenaged son (16) and ten years ago when he was 6, I was terminated with no warning from my job as a pharmacist in a down-sizing. I did not allow it to get me down for a second b/c like nurses, pharmacist jobs are abundant.

I know you feel some anxiety being the provider for your family as was I, but try to look at this situation as an opportunity to make changes that may place you somewhere you never thought of going that will be so much better for you and your sons.

When it happened to me, I did not pursue another job as a pharmacist, but decided instead to change careers and got into pharmaceutical sales (they really like to hire nurses too). It was one of the best decisions I've ever made, allowing increased flexibility of schedule and more opportunity for advancement. Ten years later, I am working the best job I've ever had and doing quite well financially.

This too shall pass, and when it does, you will find it was worth passing through to end up where you'll be...keep your head up!

8:36 PM  
Blogger Rose said...

That's a piss poor way to notify a person of something like that. If that is the way they treat their employees I wouldn't want to be there anyway...you have some blessings on the way. When one door closes, another one opens. I'm praying that your blessings will come soon....

9:26 PM  
Blogger De Immigrant said...

Take a rest for a few days, get your mind together, then make a full time job out of looking for a job. 4 WORDS: This too shall pass.

9:03 AM  
Anonymous Reddy said...

Trouble don't last always sweetie.. Huggs... You'll look back on this oneday and jump for joy that you were liberated from that situation.. Something brand new and fabulous is on the way for you.. Watch n see..

I'm prayin for ya gyrl..

9:04 PM  

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