Monday, March 27, 2006

IS IT WRONG?????

IS IT WRONG FOR ME TO WANT THE PERSON WHO CAUSED ME TO GET TERMINATED, FIRED?????

The person that caused me to get fired still has his job!!!! Why is that????? It's his fault!!!! Period!!!!! He asked me for help and was not honest about his intent!!!!! The woman at HIS job pursed this until I was fired!!! Me and my boss!!!! Do I do the same????? I don't want revenge.....it only seems right!!!!!! Why does he still have a job????? He didn't use the note for the reason he said he was!!!! He tried to get PAID fraudulently............I got fired!!!!!! He didn't!!!!!!!

AM I WRONG??????

39 Comments:

Blogger Dee said...

I'm torn about this because I saw this person out this weekend having a great time!!!! Happy and carefree..............it really bothered me because of all I have been through getting terminated and all!!!! I was trying 2 help his ass in the 1st place and he LIED 2 ME!!!!!!

I need feed back because i'm gonna start letter writting.........his supervisor, the supervisors boss etc....just like his company did me!!!!!

5:58 AM  
Blogger YouToldHarpoTaBeatMe said...

Let the man keep his job, so when you SUE HIM, he still has something to pay you back with!!

6:23 AM  
Blogger LUVIN ME said...

I am a strong believer in karma, but I feel it is up to you to get the ball rolling. Although I am not a vengeful person, I feel that if he was wrong, he should be punished as well. You aren't getting him fired, you are telling the truth, his actions will get him fired!

6:42 AM  
Blogger Slow Metamorphosis said...

Nope your not wrong. I would want him to get fired too but in truth - what goes around comes around. Thats messed up what he did but karma is a bitch and he will get his

7:04 AM  
Blogger TheOneandOnlyInsanely said...

Dee, you need to get that computer fixed, you missing out....

8:12 AM  
Blogger TheOneandOnlyInsanely said...

I would trick.....ain't no loyalty and rules in Coporate America...

Thats only in the streets will you be labeled a snitch...

TRICK!!!
(for those not familiar with the slang, tell on his ass)

8:13 AM  
Blogger Honey-Libra said...

I say research find out what you can and can't do without seeming to be vindictive...of course you aren't wrong for wanting him to be punished for misleading you and causing you to lose your job...do what you gotta do girlie...

8:17 AM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

I would want to get revenge also,
but Karma is going to come back around on him. His company knows what happened?
tj

8:20 AM  
Blogger Dee said...

Yeah T.J the workers comp lady at his job is the one who pursued me and boss lady!!!! After she talked 2 boss lady she was NOT satified so she went over boss ladies head and then went to boss ladies bosses boss!!!!!

8:41 AM  
Blogger Ms. Behavin' said...

Hmmm... part of me says "what are you waiting for?? Get t' writin'!!" Another part of me says "Don't let this situation consume you. He will get what's coming to him, so you don't even have to waste your time." At the same time, you are unemployed, so you do have a lot more time on your hands right now. Is it really a waste to use the time to brush up on your letter writing skills?? ;-)
Ok- this is too many thoughts. I think I have multiple personalities!! Sorry I'm not more helpful on this one.

9:06 AM  
Blogger muffin said...

girl his bad karma will come back in no time! don't you worry about that!

focus on what you need to do in the meantime and when you're all good, this probably won't bother you AS much, but trust that he will face his own karma...it's inevitable!

9:23 AM  
Blogger Sharon said...

I can imagine how it felt to see him out acting as if he didn't have a care in the world, but I have to ask, is it worth it to you to exert the energy necessary to see this to the end? Karma is a bitch and he will get his. The other question is can you be alright with the idea that you may not get to witness him getting his?

It's kinda like seeing an ex who cheated on you with his new chick. You want to blow his game up in his face but know she probably will stay with his azz anyway, so why bother. Sometimes you have to just walk away knowing that his time will come. Then, you can exert your energy in areas that result in positive outcomes for you.

Will exertion of energy to get him fired really change anything for you? If so, go for it...if not, use your energy to move your life forward and let God use His energy to deal with lying azz party man!

Whatever you decide, I wish you the best!

9:47 AM  
Blogger That Girl Tam said...

Well Dee...I may have a mad evil streak in me, but I'm terrified of Karma (although I've got a pretty hefty nest egg in my Karma account). I know it may seem likes he's gettin over, just know that Karma already has him tagged...and when his time comes, it's gonna come hard. No worries...let that fool "be" - and you keep doing YOU...take them classes, keep your house clean, take your kids back and forth to school and keep having those wonderful talks with them.

Because on SATURDAY...we're gonna be actin like some straight FOOLS at the WCBH Convention!! You betta ax sumbody! HAHAHAHA

10:26 AM  
Blogger ByeBye said...

Two wrongs never make a right... even though sometimes for the moment it may feel good. Believe me he'll get his in the end. Keep faith and find work elsewhere.

11:51 AM  
Blogger Brandi said...

I also believe in karma and I would try my best to let it go and let god deal with him but I don't know if I would be able too. I think I would try to get him fired!

Good Luck with whatever you decide!

12:09 PM  
Blogger chele said...

Leave it alone. Just leave it alone. He will get his in the end and doesn't have to be by your hand.

12:10 PM  
Blogger Msnhim said...

I know how you feel but Like everyone has said KARMA will get his ass!

12:38 PM  
Anonymous Nikki said...

Payback will come back to him twofold. When you intentionally hurt others, you get your in the end.

12:44 PM  
Blogger Miz JJ said...

Move on. I would like to say karma will solve it, but that could never happen. Don't waste your energy on that stuff. You need to focus on you.

1:02 PM  
Blogger Nicky said...

Hey Dee I just dropped by to say Hi cuz I see you leave me hello messages all the time. I miss you too. I think you should let it go, you've already spent an imense amount time crying about this no need to rehash and add more stress. Girl let it go, god doesn't like ugly and he sure ain't to fond of pretty. ;o)

You can always email me dazzlemenicky@gmail.com

1:08 PM  
Blogger P said...

I understand your frustration.

It only comes from the fact that you no longer have your job, and that person does.

BUT

That is not going to make you feel better if he loses his job, because the root of the anger comes from you losing a job you love over seven years, and that must hurt.

Honey, it makes sense that you would be frustrated over what has happened, but ultimately, we have to take personal inventory and figure out how to never let this happen again.

BUT

Doesn't mean I would not be hot, either. ..

1:59 PM  
Blogger African girl, American world said...

what I'm not understanding is how the workers comp lady at HIS job would go out of her way to get you and boss lady fired but not get a rat's ass about him?!!! I mean if not firing him, dock his pay, suspend him, something...

You and boss lady got a lawyer yet?

I just read your last post and I'm glad you're looking at things different and taking a couple of classes...I'm proud of you!

What's boss lady's plans?

2:50 PM  
Blogger SMW said...

"Vengeance is mine, says the Lord."

Focus on your mental health and family. Getting him fired wont change your situation baby. If you do that you'll be comforming to the old adage that says, "Misery loves company..."

3:09 PM  
Blogger sonyared said...

I don't feel u r wrong for feeling that way..that's what happens when people dishonestly do stuff behind your back..and to mess with your job..

Something better will come along and there is something in the works. Girl everyone gets theirs in the end, nothing goes un-noticed..but work on taking the focus off of them though..it'll just keep upsetting you. I feel ya though. The world is a very round place!! for real ;-)

3:22 PM  
Blogger Melinda said...

he will get his..!

Although i am feeling yoiu i would want to sing it out tot he world what he did!

4:24 PM  
Blogger Honest said...

Uhh That's messed up. Since I don't know the entire story I'mma say do what you feel is right.

Did this guy apologize, does he know you got fired?

4:27 PM  
Anonymous Reddy said...

You're a much loved child of God Dee.. He can take care of that situation better than you can.. It's goinna sound madd crazy but pray for the people who lied on you, and to you and leave it up to God.

There is a chick at my gig working my last black angry nerve.. i'm going to have to take it to the Lord in prayer each and every day till I get that anger outta my system and forgive her.

7:29 PM  
Blogger Slim said...

Let GOD fix it!

5:37 AM  
Blogger Rhonda said...

I think you should SUE him and not for revenge but for the mear purpose he got you terminated and lied. He has given you a right to sue and I think you should use it. Possibly he will be fired after you sue.

8:13 AM  
Blogger Brandi said...

Are you going to tell us what you decide?

8:35 AM  
Blogger princessdominique said...

Okay I'm lost. I think I missed something. You got fired??!?!??!

9:30 AM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

God dont like ugly so his day will be coming....but in the future just watch your back, document everything.......:)........don't let that get you down though

9:58 AM  
Blogger Icey said...

Vengence is thine sayeth the Lord (paraphrased) There is nothing YOU can do that can out do the kind of punishement the creator can put on a person.

That's all I got to say

11:13 AM  
Blogger Mocha_Grl said...

It's only natural! I truly believe in karma. Move on knowing that he'll get his in the end

11:48 AM  
Blogger Lisa said...

I would want him fired too. But I agree with everyone on "karma" - I am a firm believer in it and he will definitely get him!!!

2:42 PM  
Blogger mrs.tj said...

that is a hard position to be in. I am wondering what you are going to do. Hope you are enjoying the good weather. It is still freaking COLD in Iowa!
Holla!

2:10 PM  
Blogger SilkySmooth said...

I would want his ass fired and I would fuck him up for jeopardizing my lively-hood. Karma is a Bitch; he will get his.

3:03 PM  
Anonymous Sheron fka MsThing said...

hi dee! *waving wildy* i saw your hello in suedemuffin's comment section and dropped by to say hello. all is well with me. no complaints on this end. i'm working hard and missing blogger somewhat. i've contemplated returning, but i don't have the required time to devote to a page right now. i'll be in touch, lady. take care of yourself and the boys.

8:09 PM  
Blogger Kayla said...

No. You aren't wrong. He'll get his, though. Bleeeedat!!!!

5:33 PM  

Post a Comment

<< Home